Smell Ya Later!
I’m terrible at reading social cues. Truly, horribly, toe-curlingly awful at it. As a result I have a morbid fear of outstaying my welcome, of pushing myself in where I’m not wanted. It isn’t easy for me to give up on someone but if I sense them cooling then I try my hardest not to turn into the “I’m not gonna be IGNORED Dan” bunny-boiler stereotype. It’s a fine line to tread though, to show continued interest without applying pressure if the other person is cooling off. K has been a FB for a number of years. While we get on well, we both understood the limits of the relationship as FB, not FWB. If sex is off the table then we would never meet up just to spend time together. I enjoy his company and have nothing but love for him, but it’s entirely a sexual arrangement. I originally met K on a swinging site, through his wife. She liked the idea of K meeting up with other women, though she didn’t want to participate. When we all met up for a meal and a drink we got along