Trust, But Verify
I have mentioned a few times the swinging site I used heavily for a few years. I am still on the site, but it’s no longer my main source of a good time. I’ve had great fun on there and I’m still a frequent visitor, but I’m no longer actively searching or sending messages to profiles that tickle my fancy. I’m now a passive spectator, occasionally throwing my tuppence into a forum thread or replying to a message I find interesting. That makes it all the more interesting that I’ve recently had some very enjoyable meets from there, two of whom I hope to meet on a regularish basis, indeed one of whom I’ve met a couple of times already and had great fun with! One of the oddities about that particular site is the verification system. An existing member can meet a newbie and confirm that they are a real person and turned up when they said they would, looking like the photos they had provided. Good idea, no? Well… as with so many good ideas sometimes the key is in the implementatio