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Trust, But Verify

I have mentioned a few times the swinging site I used heavily for a few years.  I am still on the site, but it’s no longer my main source of a good time.  I’ve had great fun on there and I’m still a frequent visitor, but I’m no longer actively searching or sending messages to profiles that tickle my fancy.  I’m now a passive spectator, occasionally throwing my tuppence into a forum thread or replying to a message I find interesting. That makes it all the more interesting that I’ve recently had some very enjoyable meets from there, two of whom I hope to meet on a regularish basis, indeed one of whom I’ve met a couple of times already and had great fun with! One of the oddities about that particular site is the verification system.   An existing member can meet a newbie and confirm that they are a real person and turned up when they said they would, looking like the photos they had provided.   Good idea, no?   Well… as with so many good ideas sometimes th...